I know I shouldn't be irritated about this, but I am. First of all, I'm terrified that sharing our news will somehow jinx this pregnancy. Last night at Dave's brother's birthday party, I walked in to congratulations from several people. People I hadn't seen in a long time. Apparently my FIL had been informing all the guests of our news as they walked through the door. I was a bit taken aback. I guess nothing is sacred anymore. I just feel betrayed when we make such specific requests not to tell and yet, it comes flying out with no abandon. I was angry at first, now I feel offended. Not only was I unprepared for congrats, but I was confident that our news wouldn't be shared by our close family when we asked them not to.
Let down...again.
Monday, May 21, 2007
Ms. Grumpy Pants
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2 comments:
I'm sorry that they did that, and it made you feel so bad.
I know it's hard with in-laws! One thing to try to remember though... they are probably just really excited, they are happy and want to share the news, and they may not truly realize how much it meant to you guys that they didn't share this with anyone right now. It's hard to know what they're thinking though.
I'm sure it's really hard, since you're worried about this pregnancy. I hope that your family members will be better about honoring your wishes.
Perhaps your FIL did not know that he was not supposed to tell. Perhaps he was not there when you made this specific reqest you spoke of. I am sure he is just excited and he didnt have an malicious intent. He would honor your whishes if he was aware of them. Cut him some slack I am sure he is just so happy for you. This is a lesson for next time. Dont let the cat out of the bag unless your ready to let the cat out of the bag.
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